What You Are Saying And Who You Are Being

Tue, Dec 8, 2009

Credibility & Trust

Marketing ConflictAs world leaders converge on Copenhagen for the U.N’s conference on climate change — which has been dubbed as the last best chance to save the world from global warming — they’ll arrive in a fleet of carbon-coughing gas guzzlers.

140 private jets
1,200 limousines
And a carbon footprint the size of Bulgaria

So do you believe our world leaders now when they say that saving the environment is their top concern?

I didn’t think so.

One of the deadliest credibility killers in communication is conflict between what you are saying and who you are being.

Harmony between your actions and words elevates credibility. But conflict causes credibility to crumble. Your customer’s brain immediately recognizes any contradiction, and reacts by alerting its finely-tuned B.S. meter.

Steven Pinker, Director of the Center for Cognitive Neuroscience, says, “The search for signs of trustworthiness makes us into mind readers, alert for any twitch of inconsistency that betrays a sham.”

But inconsistencies can happen to the best of us. And as I’ve said before in greater detail, there are three straightforward questions that business owners and marketers should ask themselves regularly to align their actions and words.

The Three Questions of Message Alignment:

1.  What are your company’s defining characteristics?
2.  What signals do your decisions send?
3.  Is there conflict between what you are saying and who you are being?

Successful companies deliberately take steps to protect credibility, leading consumers to anticipate a trustworthy buying experience. Are you deliberately taking steps to protect yours?

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Tom Wanek - who has written 68 posts on MarketingBeyondAdvertising.com.


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  • Trust is important in any facets of our interactions. If there's a conflict between words actions, doubts ensues. This is a simple truth few understood. :-)
  • "One of the deadliest credibility killers in communication is conflict between what you are saying and who you are being."

    Maybe Tiger Woods and his handlers should read you blog and your book. Fat chance.

    Arrogant people (and brands) like Tiger think they can fool all the people all the time. Eventually "who you are being" trumps what you are saying.

    Why is it that some think that their words and deeds don't have to be in alignment?

    How many of the small business owners that I work with don't get this? The public is not stupid. They will eventually judge you on your actions, not your words.

    And be assured, in our new open and transparent society, every action eventually becomes known.

    Tom, keep raising the credibility banner high. And thanks for your new book. It's an easy-to-read informative guideline that's at the heart of business success.
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